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Toddling

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Reed has successfully changed from a baby to a toddler, almost over night.  He is starting to have opinions and shows us when he is unhappy about something.

Sunday night we were leaving my parents house and when I was putting him in his car seat he looked at me and gave me a pouty face.  Then when I tried to hand him his lion (that he loves) he took his hand and swiped it out of my hand onto the driveway.  The entire drive home he kept the pouty face on.

He did this again when I picked him up from the nanny on Tuesday.  He was playing with Connor and Brody and when it was time to leave he kept walking away from me.  Once again when I put him in his car seat he started to pout and wouldn’t take his car toy.  During the drive home he would scream in short 2 second bursts.  Nothing was wrong, he was just pouting.

This is annoying, but also hilarious.  I’m so excited to see his little personality coming through (even if its bratty at times)

Month 11

IMG_7506.JPGReed has been taking steps since early January, but as of Feb. 13 he is a walker.  He is of course getting better and better everyday and his balance is improving all the time.  It is so fun to watch how proud he is of himself when he walks from one end of the room to the other.  He (as usual) loves for us to watch him and gets so revved up that sometimes he knocks himself down because of his excitement.

He is babbling even more this month but no discernible words yet.  If he is anything like me it’s probably best if he waits a little longer before he talks.  Between the two of us I think we will drive Randy crazy!!

Month 10

IMG_7343.JPGReed’s 10th month of life was a big one for all of us.  On January 7th he took his first step.  Yes it was during the national championship, and yes he was stepping AWAY from the tv.  Guess he’s a good Ag after all 🙂

During January is also when he started really babbling up a storm.  Some mornings I wake up to the sound of him talking to himself in his crib.  It is such a wonderful, unobtrusive way to wake up.  I only wish every single morning was like that.

He continues to be an incredibly happy child.  He loves to do anything to make us smile at him, which is pretty much anything he does.  One of his favorite tricks is to squint his eyes and smile.  We always pay off with a laugh so he does it all the time.

He has started to be a more picky eater and sometimes just won’t eat his vegetables.  His favorite foods are yogurt (I literally can’t get the spoon in his mouth fast enough when he’s eating yogurt) , fruit and jumbo rice crispies.  If I let him he would live on those few things and nothing else.  On second thought, add black beans to that list.  I have resorted to hiding vegetables in his yogurt.  He will eat the heck out of his peas and carrots if they are mixed in with his yogurt.  Sneaky mommy…

He still loves bath time more than anyone I’ve ever known.  I love it when we start the tub water because no matter where he is he hears it and crawls as fast as possible to the tub.  Then he stands at the tub and lifts his leg to try and get in the water all by himself.  Cracks me up every time.  He also LOVES rubber duckies.  He has a lion duck whose head he shoves in his mouth every chance he gets.

He still goes to the Davis’ house either 3 or 4 days a week to share the nanny with his best friend Brody.  He loves it there so much that some days I wonder if he would rather stay there with Brody than come home.  I tell you, for a working mom there is nothing more wonderful than knowing your child is well taken care of, and totally happy while you are at work everyday.

As for me I was finally able to lose the last of the baby weight.  I still have more weight to lose because I wasn’t in great shape when I got pregnant…but at least its a start!!

Month 10 was a great one.  I just can’t believe he’s almost 1 already.  It truly has been an awesome year.

Amanda’s Wedding!!

img_7063We spent last weekend in Dallas with my second family and all of my friends from A&M.  Amanda got married and was truly the most beautiful bride I have ever seen.  I’m not exaggerating here.  Amanda is photogenic and has a wonderful smile, but she is like me and doesn’t dress up very often.  I was TOTALLY blown away!

It was a family affair for all of us as my parents and Diana came too.  We shared a room with the Pikes (I always seem to share a room with you guys!!) and mom and dad kept Reed.  We all had a great time at the reception and sweet Reed was a trooper.  I didn’t realize how late it had gotten until he started to nod off on my shoulder.  I looked and it was 11pm!!!  No wonder the poor baby was tired.  He fell asleep on the floor in a pile of our coats…please don’t call CPS, I promise he was safe and perfectly happy!

Congratulations John & Amanda!!!

Resolutions

We had an uneventful New Years.  We invited a few families and my parents over to the house for a laid back evening.  That’s not quite what happened.  Our house is flat out too small to host any more gatherings if we can’t be outside.  We were bursting at the seams with only a few people!!!

Now to the point of my post…Resolutions.  I go back and forth on whether or not I agree with or believe in resolutions.  I believe in goals, I believe in constantly bettering yourself (drives Randy crazy), but I don’t believe in only doing it once a year and making the resolution for an entire year.  Small goals are much more achievable.  All that being said, I think I have a good one this year.  My resolution is to stop taking myself so seriously.  The girls in my accountability group know all about my shortcomings and my self induced drama, but the rest of you might not.

I am so hard on myself at all times.  It starts with my weight, and continues to my house not being perfect, and not being the smartest person at my job, and not dressing well enough, and I don’t spend enough time in devotion with God and I’m not a wonderful girlfriend, and I don’t write thank you notes…the list literally goes on.  I never give myself a break.  To illustrate how bad I can be, when I was a kid in school my parents never once punished me for a bad grade.  My mom’s logic was that I was already punishing myself enough so she didn’t need to.  And she was right!

All of this nonsense is taxing as you can imagine.  So my resolution is to give it a rest already.  I will lose this weight slowly, we will buy a new house one day that has the space I want, I’ve only been in my job for 3 months obviously I won’t be the best, etc.  This year more than ever I truly pray that I can keep my resolution forever!

J

Reed’s First Christmas

img_6911I love Christmas.  But Christmas is not Christmas without children.  I have felt that for many years and especially since Randy and I have been married.  This year Christmas was Christmas again!!

Christmas Eve we went to Victoria to be with the Pribyl family (Randy’s mom’s family).  They are huge family and I have such a wonderful time with them.  It only stinks that we only see them once a year.  I wish we could find another time to get together.  I love that celebration, but it is a very tough day.  We left the house around 8 and didn’t get home until 8.  Lots of driving, but lots of love and fun.  After we got home we had to wrap all of our presents (one of the things I had planned to do but then got sick) and ‘disassemble’ the toys we bought for Reed.  Why do they make those toys SO hard to get out!!??

Christmas morning Randy and I woke up early like a couple of children.  We opened our presents to each other (not much after the TV) and then woke Reed up.  He opened played with his new toys (a set of whiffle balls that cost about $5 were his favorite) and then I started the coffee and put breakfast in the oven.

My family came over and spent the morning with us.  It was a wonderful morning.  We relaxed and enjoyed each other’s company.

Randy, Reed and I spent the afternoon relaxing and napping and then Randy’s family came over.  More present opening and family time.  All in all it was a fantastic Christmas and I am excited for next year 🙂

J

December

reed_baptism_ryanDecember was a whirlwind of a month.  It started off with Reed being sick (from previous post).  It was his first time to be sick, and it was scary for this new mom.  I have said it before, but it bears repeating…my mom is a God-send!  Not only is she a mom of 4 kids (and she was a great one!) but she works for Call A Nurse and knows how to triage anything that comes along.  I am so thankful that I don’t have to rush him to the doctor every time I have a question.

Randy and I were both incredibly busy at work the first 3 weeks of December.  Randy was putting together the new website for his company (www.globalscape.com) and for the first time he was essentially in charge of ensuring the launch was successful with no errors.  I was in the middle of analyzing November actuals and preparing the December – QI 2010 forecast.  My job gets better and better everyday, but as I have only been doing this since October each month is a new challenge and I’m constantly learning the ropes.

With Randy and I so busy at work, it left little time to enjoy the holiday season and not feel overwhelmed by the significance of Reed’s first Christmas!!

On a good note, we have so many of Reed’s friends that were born in December that we were able to spend lots of time at birthday parties celebrating all of these beautiful children!

To top off the month, I got the stomach flu.  Friday the 18th we had our White Elephant gift exchange and party at the Brown’s house.  So many of our friends were there and it was a packed house.  Best white elephant exchange ever and we all had a wonderful time.

The next morning I made the executive decision we were not going to the Tesoro Christmas party and instead going to McKaylee’s first birthday party. (Praise the Lord for that decision!!)  As we were leaving the Nichols house around 6pm I told Randy that I didn’t feel so good.  We picked up the cake for Reed’s baptism (the next day!) from Megan and by the time we got home I couldn’t stand up.  I laid on the couch for the next 2 hours and couldn’t open my eyes or move.  By 8 pm it really hit.  I have to tell you that I have never in my life (yes, never) thrown up from being sick.  A very few times from drinking too much, but never from being sick.  I threw up 12 times in 3 hours and truly thought I was going to die.  Poor Randy was running around the house emptying the trash can and rinsing it out and then running to replace it next to me in the bathroom.  I will spare you the rest of the gory details, but you can imagine all that accompanies the stomach flu.

Finally I could tell the throwing up was over and I laid in bed.  I wasn’t able to settle down enough to sleep so I just tossed an turned all night and eventually ended up on the couch.  The next morning I HAD to pull it together and make it to church.  As we were packing up to head out we started getting messages that everyone from the party on Friday night was sick.  Someone in almost every family at the party was sick.  I’m pretty sure I was the carrier because I had it the worst and because the Davis’ had it too…I’m the only one that had contact with the Davis’.  Plus Diana got it, and I’m the only one that was around her too!

I made it to church and stood through his baptism, but that was it.  Mom took Diana and me to my house where we literally slept the entire day.  My sweet husband was wonderful about taking care of us and also entertaining Reed.

It took me a solid week to get back on my feet.  I was pretty worthless the entire week leading up to Christmas.  Truly, that is the single sickest I have ever been in my life and I am so thankful that 1. it is over and 2. I didn’t pass it to Randy or Reed.

So that’s it.  All the stressful parts of December.  I will save the good parts for a separate post 🙂

J

4 Years…Already?

portraits012Today is our 4 year anniversary.  Looking back I’m completely shocked at how much our lives have changed in 4 short years.  Our first anniversary we were in Seattle and living in a new house.  The second I was in a new job and Randy was about to start a new job. The third we were in Mexico at our friend’s wedding, I was pregnant, and Randy was in another new job.  Now for our fourth we have Reed and I am in another job again.  Who knows what we will add to the list for our fifth anniversary!!

The other significant thing I’m thinking about today is that our wedding was outside, in December.  I was so worried about the weather because we didn’t have a good Plan B.  God provided the most beautiful day for our wedding.  It was 85 degrees outside and sunny.  Today, it is 40 degrees, gray, and a potential for snow tonight/tomorrow.   All I can say is God is Good.

Thank you God for the last 4 years and for our family that I love more than I could ever have imagined.

Julie

So scary

img_6517Reed has been a very healthy child for the first 9 months of his life, but that all came to a screeching halt on Saturday.  He was extra sleepy on Saturday and when he woke up from an extended afternoon nap he felt pretty warm to me.  I thought it was because he had slept so hard and so long so I didn’t worry too much.  10 minutes later I felt him again and he was still hot, and a little sluggish.  We grabbed the thermometer and I was shocked when it said 103.9.  Of course I immediately called my mom (for those of you who don’t know my mom is a nurse and works for Methodist Hospital “Call a Nurse”).  She gave me some steps to take and offered to come over and assess him in person.  In the meantime I gave him Tylenol and put him in a warm bath to try to lower his fever.  Sweet little Reed just played and splashed in his tub.

Long story short we monitored him very closely and alternated Motrin and Tylenol as directed.

Most people think I’m crazy because I didn’t take him to the doctor or the ER, but let me tell you why.  I had professional guidance and I don’t believe in taking a sick infant into a place filled with other sick people just so the doctor can tell me whether its the regular flu or H1N1.  They don’t give Tami-flu to babies under a year.  All that would happen is they would tell me to monitor his temp and make sure he is drinking enough fluids.  I’m off my soapbox now.

Reed has kicked the flu and is back to playing with Brody at the Davis’ house again.  Tending to a sick child was more stressful and taxing for me than when he was a newborn.  I really hope he doesn’t get sick again anytime soon!!!!!!

Thanksgiving

img_6501Thanksgiving might be my second favorite holiday (next to Easter) because I love to cook and I love to plan and I love to hostess.  This year we wanted to eat Thanksgiving dinner at GG’s house (my dad’s mom) because she has the most space.  My only request was that I get to help cook and hostess.  GG came one step further and said I could cook it all if I wanted to, so I did.  Two weeks before Thanksgiving I started making a menu, a grocery list and a timeline.

Mom, Diana, Adrianne and I went to GG’s house on Wednesday night to prep and have some family time.   Dad couldn’t stay away so he joined us too.  It was a fun night of laughing and cooking.  Then on Thursday I went to work and cooked the whole dinner except the mashed potatoes.  It was a busy day but a wonderful one.

I won’t speak for Randy, but this has been the best year of my life.  Its also been one of the hardest between caring for a newborn and saying goodbye to Alison and Shiloh.  On Thanksgiving I couldn’t help but think about Alison and Shelly and be sad that neither of them had children in their short lives.  Reed has changed us forever and I can’t wait to watch him grow up.  His smiling face makes me smile from the inside out.  (I wish he would let me squeeze him more because I can’t seem to get enough!!)

To all of my friends and family, thank you for being a part of my life.  I am happier and more fulfilled than I ever dreamed I could be.

Julie