Category: Reed

New family pet

We have a new family pet… a parrot. This parrot isn’t the kind that flies or even one that needs to be kept in a cage. We do still have to feed it and clean it, but that is not the part we concern ourselves with. The best AND worst part about our new parrot? You guessed it… repeats EVERYTHING!

Reed’s vocabulary has really blossomed over the last month. When once he was too shy or timid to try talking, he is now attempting everything that we say to him… or around him. Julie got burned in classic style this morning when we were talking across the bedroom while I was getting ready for work. I mentioned something that caught her by surprise, and she responded with the traditionally girly response of “Shut… UP!” Reed didn’t miss a beat and chimed right in, repeatedly… “shut up, shut up, shut up, shut up”. We both busted out while Reed kept repeating since we gave him such a great reaction. 🙂

Among some of our favorites in his vocab, are the ones that he uses every day as part of his routine.

He as a [cereal] “bar” and “manana” for breakfast almost every morning. Up until recently, after we sit him down in his chair to eat, we feed the dog by letting him “ou-side” in the “brrrr-cold”.

Getting dressed in the mornings can be knock-down drag-out fight, or it can be a vocabulary lesson, you can never tell what the mood will be. Sometimes as a form of persuasion/distraction, we will talk about getting dressed to go “ou-side” and get in “Daddy’s truck” (which he LOVES to play in the Driver’s seat). Pointing out “Reed’s shoes” and “Daddy’s shoes” is where he first started assigning ownership. Now he will go through everyone’s attire and make sure that everyone has their assigned garments.

For the longest time, Reed used the word, “Ba”, for any large vehicle. I couldn’t get him to say “truck” for the life of me. On the other hand, “car” is one of the first words that he has enunciated very well from the beginning… all other words seem to fall off at the end, like “baa” for ‘bath’.

Roll call at the dinner table is another form of assigning ownership, but sometimes Reed will call out people that are not there, like “BB”, “Duke” and “Ya-Ya”. Diana Beth (DB), David and Laurie have all had their time at our dinner table, and according to Reed, each have their assigned seats.

The list could goes on forever and changes every day. Like I said, he is constantly trying new words and syllables. But, it is very hard to explain in writing how Reed’s expressions and inflection can turn a normal word or phrase on it’s head. I can’t do it justice here for you, and it’s hard to catch those moments on video. So, we do our best to enjoy our little parrot while he is here with us.

-RB

All Boy

Not even two years old and Reed is very much a little boy. He loves to be outside and get his hands dirty as well as follow me around and help wherever I will let him. Here are just a few picture of him puddle-stomping out on the back patio as well as a big box that I cut our doors and windows for his first “fort”. He loves cars, trucks, trains, planes… just about anything that goes.

-RB

Mr. Fixit, Jr

Reed LOVES to help me when the tools come out. We even got him the Handy Manny Toolbox for Christmas so he could have his own set. At first my power drill scared him, but he was always intrigued. Once he got over his initial fear he now gets VERY excited when I rev the drill a few times.

I replaced the garbage disposal for this year’s Valentine’s Day gift to Julie (kitchen stuff seems to be our theme for this occasion… and we are married). So, Reed jumped right in and climbed under the already-crowded kitchen sink cabinet.

-RB

First month as a family of four

The friends that have gone before us by adding a second child to the family have openly admitted, “It’s a freakin’ circus.” Well, we’ve had our first experience with the Baldwin Traveling Roadshow this past month once we added Alison to the family and got home from the hospital.

This is certainly a season of our lives that is temporary, but can be the most challenging on us emotionally and physically. It can also be the most rewarding.

While Julie and I have to work on our communication and teamwork when juggling the kids, we have also seen how Reed has responded very well to his little sister. He is generally compliant to us when she needs our attention more than he does. Challenges and rewards are the name of the game for all parents and families… you just hope you get more of the latter to keep you going.

-RB

Bunch of random thoughts

Sorry for such a long delay between posts.  I have all these thoughts pop into my head during the day, and never manage to make it to post it on the blog.  Consequently this is just a random mess of thoughts 🙂

To continue comparing my children…Alison is much harder than Reed was as a newborn.  (Let’s hope this means she will be an easier toddler!)  The first 2 or 3 weeks were pretty normal but lately her sleep habits have gotten terrible…and I am grumpy as a result.  All of you warned me that have a cuddly baby was a bad thing and you are right!  She only wants to go to sleep in my arms.  Sometimes I don’t want to sit on the couch and hold a baby ALL day.  I’m good with it for most of the day, but not all.  As a result of her cuddliness I haven’t been working out like I need to and I haven’t lost a single pound since day 5 postpartum.  (On day 5 I had lost 20 pounds and I haven’t lost another ounce since!) Back to the crappy sleep.  She still has her days and nights mixed up and so she is awake from like 11pm to 1am.  NOT a good thing.  We are trying to keep her awake more during the day to fix this problem.

The second major difference is that she is still spitting up.  It isn’t ever a lot, but it’s enough so that I always feel like I’m covered in throw up.  I didn’t realize how annoying this was.  I should have enjoyed Reed’s lack of throw up a WHOLE lot more.

Ali had her 4 week checkup Monday and she weighed 9’6″ (70%) and was 21inches long (50%)  Sadly, Reed gave her pink eye so I had to put ointment in her eyes for a few days.  I hated seeing her goopy eyes when she woke up in the morning.  So sad.

Other than my earlier complaints we are doing great!  Reed still loves Ali, sometimes too much.  We are still working on ‘gentle’.

Last random thought…I really suck at being a stay at home mom.  I am not good at self motivation and we wind up spending way too much time at the house.  However on the other hand I’m sad that I’m going back to work in 7 short weeks.  Is there any way to make me happy?  Sometimes I even annoy myself!!!

Reed LOVES Ali

I was very nervous about how Reed would respond to Ali.  He is so young and really couldn’t understand that he was about to have a little sister.  We did all the usual things to try to prepare him, but he just didn’t get it.  Also, since he is the first grandbaby on both sides of our family he is SUPER spoiled.  As much as I have tried to prevent this, it is inevitable.  It doesn’t help that he has a personality so big it can hardly fit in his tiny little body.  Long story short, the last few weeks of my pregnancy I was more and more concerned about how he would treat her and us after she was born.  All of that worry was unnecessary!

He has been SO sweet with her since the moment he saw her.  From the first time he met her he has been calling her ‘Ali’ (we have got to get that on video.  He sounds so sweet when he says her name).  Anytime she cries he says ‘Ali cwry?’ (Another one we have to get on video).  He loves her so much and just wants to hug and kiss her all the time.  When he walks in the house from school the first thing he asks for is Ali.

Randy took a picture of Reed at school the other day of him covering up a doll with a blanket.  His teachers said that he is so gentle and sweet with the dolls.  He either calls them ‘baby’ or ‘Ali’ and loves to tend to them.  Love that little boy so much.  And yes, I spoil him as much as the grandparents.  Mommy fail!!!

Here are a few picures of Reed taking care of the real Ali.  First he tried to put on her sock, then he put her pacifier in her mouth, then he tried to give her a drink of his water.  So sweet.

Reed vs. Ali

Reed and Ali are already SO different!  I don’t really believe in comparing your children to one another, but it is hard not to do right now when there are such stark differences.

Reed was terrible at nursing and many times I didn’t think we would make it. Ali is awesome.  She loves to nurse and sometimes I think she would stay there all the time if I let her.  One point for Ali

Reed didn’t spit up once.  In the beginning Ali spit up a little after every feeding.  It wasn’t a lot and her doctor thinks its because I am just making too much for her to swallow, but we have no experience with a spitter.  I never have a burp cloth around and we really don’t even own that many, much less any bibs.  I don’t think I have a single one for her!  One point for Reed

Reed was a fussy sleeper.  Looking back it is probably because he wasn’t getting enough to eat and he was hungry most of the time.  Ali is an AWESOME sleeper!!  She consistently eats before I go to bed (10:30ish) and only wakes up at 2:30 and 5:30.  She nurses and goes right back to sleep.  One point for Ali (that one should probably count for 2 or 3!)

You want to know why Ali wins the comparison for this age?  She is a cuddler!!!  From the day Reed was born (literally, the first time I held him he tried to wiggle out of my arms) he was a wiggly boy and refused to cuddle.  Even now I have to trick him into giving me a hug and kiss.  Ali is a big snuggler and I think she would lay on my shoulder all day long if I let her.  Thank the Lord for small favors!!!

Overall Ali is much easier, but I’m sure it is also because I am much more comfortable with newborns.  Luckily, this isn’t a contest and I love them both more than I thought possible!!  All that worry about how we were going to handle a toddler and a newborn haven’t been a big deal…YET!  I know the fun is just beginning 🙂

Ali

Reed

Reed being Reed

I just love this picture of Reed.

Sometimes he exhibits some signs of OCD.  I really hope this is just a toddler phase and not permanent.  He is so observant and particular that sometimes it drives me crazy.  This is what he wanted us to do with his stuffed animals tonight:

Christmas/New Years

We realized not too long ago that when Reed gets home and is cranky after his full day at daycare, it’s because he gets bored at home and had nothing to do or play with. It was so bad that he refused to come inside from the car, and wanted to stay in the garage to ride in the stroller or his wagon. Julie and I are not the type to buy toys for him on random occasions, so the last new toy he got was for his 1st birthday…. in March. Call me crazy, but I think the kid has had a little bit of mental and physical development since then, and his infant/toddler toys just don’t cut it for him anymore.

So, this Christmas we planned to make a concerted effort to beef-up his toy box and plan for toys that he will grow into. He has taken a huge interest in cars, trucks and trains. He also has an obsession with any type of ball sport.

This was also the first Christmas in our new home. We have been extremely happy with the additional space and couldn’t wait to actually have a place for a Christmas tree! As silly as it sounds, it was one of those things that we were so acutely aware of in the last house that it was important for us in the next one.

We had a an extremely restful vacation between Christmas and New Years. Julie and I were both off of work the entire week, so we would send Reed to daycare for the majority of the day and get a few things done around the house. The “stay-cation” was much needed R&R time for us, and well-timed before Baby Alison comes.

Our family will never be the same after this holiday season. We anxiously await Alison’s arrival, but we are not too quick to let go of this time we have as just the three of us.

-RB