Category: Randy

Mr. Fixit, Jr

Reed LOVES to help me when the tools come out. We even got him the Handy Manny Toolbox for Christmas so he could have his own set. At first my power drill scared him, but he was always intrigued. Once he got over his initial fear he now gets VERY excited when I rev the drill a few times.

I replaced the garbage disposal for this year’s Valentine’s Day gift to Julie (kitchen stuff seems to be our theme for this occasion… and we are married). So, Reed jumped right in and climbed under the already-crowded kitchen sink cabinet.

-RB

First month as a family of four

The friends that have gone before us by adding a second child to the family have openly admitted, “It’s a freakin’ circus.” Well, we’ve had our first experience with the Baldwin Traveling Roadshow this past month once we added Alison to the family and got home from the hospital.

This is certainly a season of our lives that is temporary, but can be the most challenging on us emotionally and physically. It can also be the most rewarding.

While Julie and I have to work on our communication and teamwork when juggling the kids, we have also seen how Reed has responded very well to his little sister. He is generally compliant to us when she needs our attention more than he does. Challenges and rewards are the name of the game for all parents and families… you just hope you get more of the latter to keep you going.

-RB

The drought is over

This has by far been the longest we have gone on this blog without posting. It’s not for lack of activity for sure. It’s mostly laziness, or we could also blame my hosting company that has not been as reliable as in the past, but in general… it’s just laziness.

Here are the “catch up” posts so that you don’t miss any of them:

Porter Rose Stryk

Month 18

Aggie Football Tailgate 2010

It’s the Great Pumpkin, Charlie Brown!

Stay tuned for more, the holidays are coming and so is Alison. There’s bound to be some blog material in there somewhere.

RB

Father's Day 2010

My second Father’s Day was not one I would care to remember. I came down with a stomach virus at about 5am and spent the next 6 hours making trips to the bathroom for more than one reason… I was down for the count.

Needless to say, I missed out on the Father’s Day plans that we had to spend at my parent’s house with Mama B and Papa Roy as well. Instead, Julie took Reed to her parents to spend it with her dad, as well as allow me to get more rest with a quiet house.

I am blessed to have had such a great First Father’s Day, because this one was not one I care to remember.

RB

4 Years…Already?

portraits012Today is our 4 year anniversary.  Looking back I’m completely shocked at how much our lives have changed in 4 short years.  Our first anniversary we were in Seattle and living in a new house.  The second I was in a new job and Randy was about to start a new job. The third we were in Mexico at our friend’s wedding, I was pregnant, and Randy was in another new job.  Now for our fourth we have Reed and I am in another job again.  Who knows what we will add to the list for our fifth anniversary!!

The other significant thing I’m thinking about today is that our wedding was outside, in December.  I was so worried about the weather because we didn’t have a good Plan B.  God provided the most beautiful day for our wedding.  It was 85 degrees outside and sunny.  Today, it is 40 degrees, gray, and a potential for snow tonight/tomorrow.   All I can say is God is Good.

Thank you God for the last 4 years and for our family that I love more than I could ever have imagined.

Julie

Goodbye, you old beat up Ford

truckIt wasn’t the first vehicle I ever drove, but it was certainly the first vehicle I ever bought, and my first truck at that… a 1995 Ford F-150 XLT.

In May of 2001, I had just graduated UTSA and was in the job search immediately. I was borrowing my Mom’s Dodge Intrepid to go to interviews because the ’84 Pontiac 6000 that I had been driving literally died on the way to an interview in New Braunfels. I interviewed with GlobalSCAPE and they made an offer within the week. I picked up my offer letter and went straight to CarMax. I used that offer letter as my proof of salary and took home my new truck. Just graduated, first professional job and now my first truck… I was livin’ the high life!!

The memories from then on are numerous. I’ll do my best here to list what I can remember, but they are in no particular order…

The collection of Texas Music stickers that decorated the toolbox. All the Texas Music concerts around South Texas. Driving around with Logan (puppy) curled up in the passenger seat. The day I realized that Logan was TOO BIG for that passenger seat, I stopped on the road and put him in the bed from then on. The time I drove the wrong way through Greg’s apartment entry gate, and scraped the passenger-side trim on the rock wall… I never fixed it. The time I drove the wrong way through a Taco Cabana drive through — I went up on the curb to go around the other cars coming at me (that was after a night at Midnight Rodeo)!! The first time it got broken into (at the mall) — radio, speakers, Christmas gifts. The second time it got broken into (driveway) — radio, CDs, camera — neighbor caught him and the cops got him! The time I got stuck in the gully next to a bar when I tried to go around the car that was blocking me in… I got stuck and had a dually truck pull me out — but first he moved (ie: drag sideways) that car out of the way to get to me!! The trip to Big Bend where I found my wallet stuck between the cab and the bed after it fell off the toolbox… I was in the middle of nowhere, alone! Sleeping in the bed of the truck with Logan next to me. Logan would never jump into the bed… I always had to lift him and put him in. Sleeping in a hammock at Canyon Lake, with one side tied to the truck and the other to the only tree (see picture below). The flat tire on the way back from Dallas — I had to drive down a steep hill to get to a good place to change the tire. When the drive shaft joint broke and dropped. When a front axle joint broke, pulling out of the driveway… on the way to the airport!! When my dad and my new father-in-law teamed up for the first time to help me replace the spark plugs in the GlobalSCAPE parking lot. The COUNTLESS people I helped to move! The fact that Julie HATED driving it. I lent it out to my parents, Francesco, Simon and Mark after it became our extra vehicle.

There are a few firsts that are most notable:
– Julie was the first date I picked up in my truck, and obviously it was our first date as well. When I dropped her off, I pulled a volleyball out the cab and got her to pepper with me right there in her parent’s front yard!
– I dropped off Reed for the first time at Granny B’s. Putting the car seat in and riding with my son just felt like everything was coming full-circle.

This old beat up Ford had certainly given me everything I needed and more out of a young man’s first truck. I’ll leave you with a few lyrics from Jack Ingram’s “Beat Up Ford” that will always make me think of that old ’95.

A young man drivin’ down a dusty road
Like he’s got somewhere to go
Driving like he’s got a destination
Like he’s got somewhere to go in that beat up ford

See there was a time when he was a young lost soul
He was chasin’ butterflies and rainbows
Until one day when he found his pot of gold
In the words on the young man he turned old
And the old man said

Chorus
You gotta have a good imagination
If your gonna live the life of old
He said you’ve got to drive that Ford like its a stallion
And you’ve got to wear your heart just like a gun
The old man said, the old man said
– Jack Ingram “Beat Up Ford”

-Randy

First Father’s Day

img_4147For Springtime babies, I must say that Father’s get the better end of the deal when it comes to the “Firsts” when comparing the timing of Mother’s Day vs. Father’s Day. A month makes such a big difference in an infants development, and for Reed, the development since Mother’s Day has been significant.

A month ago, Julie swore Reed was in a “Daddy Phase” simply because he only seemed to smile when I got home from work and took him to hold and play with. Now, he pretty much smiles and even laughs on-command. He is SO much more interactive these days and that makes him so much more fun than before.

He is a lot sturdier now as well. He is very comfortable being held on our shoulders, where before we would keep falling to the side. Now he seems to grab on around your shoulder and even puts the other arm around your neck. This makes him 10x cuddlier, too!

We didn’t have any special plans for Father’s Day, only that my family had to get together on Saturday morning for breakfast since my dad was heading on a mission trip immediately after his church service on Sunday. Mama B and Papa Roy joined us as well.

On Sunday, Julie ALLOWED us to go to the LATE church service so that I could sleep-in. The problem, as many of you know, is that “sleeping-in” with an infant in the house is relative. It did enable us to take our time in the morning, make coffee and breakfast, and enjoy Reed at his happiest time of the day.

I’ll admit it here… I shed a few tears. I think it caught me by surprise. This “stinkin’ kid” is so adorable and we are so blessed to have him; and days like this only happen once in a lifetime.

I love you, Reed, and I am proud to be your father.

-RB

First Date Night

Last night Randy and I left Reed with a babysitter for the first time. Praise the Lord we have so much family in San Antonio because my little sister Diana Beth was our first babysitter. She is in college and therefore has tons of free time. She has spent lots of time with Reed and I in the last month so I felt totally confident that she could handle him.

We went to Pei Wei and then to our friend Chris’ play ‘Pirates and Ninjas’. We met 3 other couples and were gone for about 4 hours total. It was the perfect first night away. Long enough, but not too long, lots of friends with us, and a hilarious play. I think I could do this again!!

J

And now a word from your father

Julie has been amazingly persistent with her updates to this blog, so much so that if she leaves me with anything to post about, it is the scraps leftover that she tossed aside. I’m proud of her. After all, she spends the most time with Reed at this time in his life and should rightfully have the most to say.

My other excuse is that our house has been in a constant state of change since we got home from the hospital with our little bundle of joy, but more so recently when almost EVERY appliance we have seemed to conspire against us at the same time! First, the (electric) stove started losing burners. Then the water heater started leaking. The microwave took up smoking. And the dishwasher spray arm spun off and melted. We chipped away at each of these over the span of a month, all the while Julie stayed at home with a kitchen in complete disarray. After all is said and done, we are now sporting a new (gas) stove, microwave/vent-hood, water heater and fixed dishwasher. Thank goodness for savings because it got a workout!

I digress… that was long winded to simply tell you what I’ve been doing these days when I am not hanging out with my son and taking our usual walks in the neighborhood.

Reed is 6 weeks old now. Somewhere right after 4 weeks, the little guy beefed up and changed from newborn to baby, almost overnight. All of the sudden he was more sturdy and durable to hold and had gained a few fat rolls. He can hold his head steady, but any lean to one side or another and he is a regular bobble head.

Opening Day

I love baseball. I love the game as much as I love the culture that surrounds the game. I love the simplicity of grabbing a glove and a ball to play catch. It is one of my fondest memories growing up in a yard big enough that my dad would catch for me pitching, or throw me some fielding practice. I cry like a baby at the end of Field of Dreams when Kevin Costner asks his dad to play catch. Needless to say, I cannot wait to share those same memories with Reed. (God forbid if he does not grow up to be an athlete, he at least will NOT throw like a girl if I can help it!)

I’m a sucker for the moment, so for this year’s opening of baseball season, I took the opportunity to dress Reed in his first Houston Astros outfit, courtesy of Aunt Beverly. We even invited Aunts Beverly and Britany over to watch the game and eat dinner (baseball is a family thing, you see). The game and the get-together was much more for my benefit, but if the kid grows up to love baseball too, he’ll certainly appreciate this picture with Pops and his first baseball merch.

Easter

Easter weekend was a kid-filled event this year… and ours sat in his car seat for most of it. All the hoopla was surrounding our group of friends and all their kids that are now walkin, talkin, full-blown kids.

On Saturday we wet to an Easter party hosted by some friends where there were about 15-20 kids under the age of 7 and a backyard FULL of plastic eggs. I swear an elementary school bus unloaded there. It was madness at times, but we were there for the kids so we kept it all in perspective. Reed was a obviously a spectator this year, but rest assured, he has already plotted his plan of attack come next year (or maybe the year after). Nonetheless, we had a great time and even got his picture with the Easter Bunny.

Sunday was family time. We went to our usual 9:30 service and then The Reasonovers came to our house for brunch. It was simple and sweet. That gave us a bit of time before we met my family and the Baldwin side at Mama B’s for dinner.

Recent Pictures

Here’s the best of the latest pics to catch ya’ll up on Baby Reed:

-RB

Lunchtime Fun

We are blessed because Randy’s office shares our back fence.  He literally walks through our backyard everyday to get to work (and his office is closer to the house than our mailbox!)  Consequently, we get to spend lunch together everyday.  It helps break up the day for me and its great for Randy to get to spend an hour with Reed in the middle of every weekday.