22 Days

22 Days left.  22 days doesn’t seem like a long time.  Some times I feel like Alison will be here tomorrow, and some days it feels like an eternity.  Delivery is scheduled for 3 weeks from tomorrow.  My belly is scary huge and everyone (even people I don’t know) ask if I am going to make it.  How the heck would I know?  I assume I’m going to make it, but if I don’t that is ok too.

This pregnancy has been similar to the first, but also different.  Biggest difference is I weighed almost 20 pounds less when I got pregnant this time.  Second biggest difference is I have worked out (both cardio and weights) several times a week this entire pregnancy.  Now here we are in the home stretch and I can still tie my shoes, wear my rings, and sit on the floor to play with Reed.  I needed to write this post today…because I might not be able to do these things tomorrow!!  As of now I feel good, but I’m ready to get rid of this belly.  Being short stinks when you are pregnant 🙂

Tonight we are finally finishing the nursery and I will post pictures either tonight or tomorrow.  It is definitely more pink and girly than I ever thought I would do.  But I love it.  I hope she will love it too!

-Julie

The drought is over

This has by far been the longest we have gone on this blog without posting. It’s not for lack of activity for sure. It’s mostly laziness, or we could also blame my hosting company that has not been as reliable as in the past, but in general… it’s just laziness.

Here are the “catch up” posts so that you don’t miss any of them:

Porter Rose Stryk

Month 18

Aggie Football Tailgate 2010

It’s the Great Pumpkin, Charlie Brown!

Stay tuned for more, the holidays are coming and so is Alison. There’s bound to be some blog material in there somewhere.

RB

It's the Great Pumpkin, Charlie Brown

Reed’s second Halloween was certainly more interactive than his first. As you may remember, as a Garden Gnome, he pretty much just sat there for us to take pictures, and Trick-or-Treating was us following the older kids around with Reed in a stroller. This year was our first as parents of a child that got excited about candy.

Reed as been blessed with a fairly round noggin and his bleach blond hair makes him look pretty much bald. He’s a little short and stocky with a pretty calm demeanor… remind you of anyone? Charlie Brown, of course!!

I’ll credit Julie with this costume yet again, but she nailed it… and probably at the perfect age. She found a “Cartoon Charlie” shirt online a few months ago and had to guess at what size he would be come October. Luckily she guessed right. The other trick was finding some black shorts in the Fall, when all the summer clothes were gone… Walmart came to the rescue… in the clearance rack. She then found some little brown converse tennis shoes that rounded out the costume. However, there was something missing that need to make this a “costume” and not just an outfit…. Snoopy!!

I scoured the stores on the afternoon of Halloween, looking for a store that would have a Snoopy doll. Target… no. Walmart…. no. Off to the mall. There were no stores that had Peanuts merch!! Finally I stepped into the Build-A-Bear and asked where I could find a Snoopy doll. Fortunately the lady there had seen some stuff at the Hallmark store just a few shops down. I thought to myself… Hallmark? Probably the last place I would have looked. Lo-and-behold, the store had tons of options! I asked why the scarcity on the Peanuts merch, and the cashier replied, “Hallmark own the rights to Peanuts.” Well… there you go.

Back to Snoopy. I picked out the best option that Reed could possibly carry around in his backpack while he was trick-or-treating around. Reed has never taken an interest in stuffed animals, so this was a long shot, but I figured it would be good for some pictures at the very least. To both of our surprise, Reed latched onto Snoopy when I came home and pulled him out! He immediately carried him around and treated him like is new favorite toy. It was perfect! Score one for Dad.

This was Reed’s first year to trick-or-treat. There are plenty of older kids in our friend group that Reed just had to follow in order to catch on. He caught on pretty quick that all he had to do was hold out his basket and these people would put stuff in it…pretty easy. The hard part was keeping up with all those kids with much longer legs!!

We brought along the wagon as the group of adults moved down the street with the kids. Reed would go to a few houses and then need a rest, as he used the time to also sort through his loot. “Pregnant Peyton Manning” pulled the wagon down the street as “Nolan Ryan” followed “Charlie Brown” up to the front doors.

We had a blast, and Reed did too. It was fun to watch him learn such a big tradition right in front of our eyes as he started grasping what was going on around him.

RB

Aggie Football Tailgate 2010

The annual tailgate has changed in persona over the years, and probably the most in the last 2 or 3. Gone are the days of drinking heavily, pitching washers and watching every down of the Aggie game (in person or on TV). This year was a full-blown kidfest, and it’s only the beginning. There were 4 toddlers, an infant, and 4 pregnant mothers!

The game against Mizzou was a blowout loss. It’s probably a good thing that it wasn’t close (or even a win) because most of the dads spent their time chasing and entertaining the toddlers. Scott and I, along with John and Amanda, attempted a game of washers off to the side… but after only 2 turns Scott and I were called back to the front line of duty. (Sorry Amanda!)

I have a feeling these toddler years will be a struggle for any of us to really visit and relax at our annual tailgate. We still look forward to them and enjoy the interaction of our kids for the time being. I promise one day in the future we will again be able to enjoy an entire adult beverage without forgetting where we set it down to chase our kids.

-RB

25 Weeks

Alison and I had our 25 week check up today.  My fantastic OB ordered another sonogram because she said that I didn’t get a good look at Ali’s face during the last one.  Dr. Vanover is definitely THE BEST!

Everything looks great and she even let us take a few pictures of her sweet face.  It’s hard to see much, but I think she looks a lot like Reed.  Her little face has gotten so chubby and cute.  It does look like she is going to be a big baby just like her brother.  As of today she weighed 2 pounds!  The sonographer estimated her due date to be 1/15/11 instead of 1/23/11 just based on her size.  We aren’t changing delivery date or her actual due date, it just goes to show she is a big girl.

It really takes me by surprise how fast this pregnancy is going by.  As of today I only have 95 days until her delivery date…yikes!  Time to get that nursery painted and get some furniture in there.  I have another appointment in 3 weeks and then we start the 2 week appointments.  I just can’t believe I am already this far into the pregnancy.  She will be here before we know it!

Month 18

Reed had a VERY eventful 18th month of life.

Onto the fun stuff!  Ever since he had tubes put in his ears Reed feels good and is SO much happier.  Few things make this child happier than playing in the rain, eating, playing with Kate Pike, eating, and having Randy throw him in the air (I will have to take some video of the throwing.  It really is SO cute)

His favorite word is ‘WOW’.  It must be written in all caps because he only knows how to say it with all the enthusiasm he can manage.  At the river he probably said it 200 times in a row to his dinner one night.  He is going to be a fat kid just like his mommy…he LOVES his food!!  There isn’t really anything he won’t eat, it just depends on who else is eating it.  He loves to eat off of my plate.  I’m sure this is a terrible habit to start, but it encourages him to try new foods.  If I can get him to be a more adventurous eater by sharing my food I am happy with it.

This last week I have been able to watch Reed play with some friends.  One of the hardest things about working full time is that I don’t get to watch him play with other children very often.  One Wednesday night we had a play date with the Swayze kids and I absolutely loved watching him play with other kids.  Then at the river I got to watch him play with Kate for 3 days.  He is such a people-pleaser.  Sometimes he would take something that he knew Kate would want.  Then he would hide behind one of us for a moment while Kate got upset that he was playing with her things.  Then you should have seen the joy on his face when he would proudly walk over to Kate and hand her what she wanted.  I’m sure once we hit the terrible two’s he will act like every other child and not want to share, and hit and throw tantrums.  But for now it was so much fun to watch him play with other children and watch what makes him happy.

Julie

Stitches

His second big surgery of the month (yes, twice in one month!) was the 5 stitches he got on the 27th.

Randy was getting ready to hang a shelf in our room while Reed and I sat on our bed and watched. The shelf was on the ground by the bed (standing on its edge) while Randy was mounting the brackets.  My phone rang so I literally ran into the other room and answered it.  As soon as I said hello I heard the scream.  I ran back into the bedroom and Randy and Reed were covered in blood.  Reed had fallen off the bed right on top of the big shelf.  Luckily his wrist caught his fall and his head was the secondary point of contact.  Strangely it was my mom on the phone so I immediately asked her,  “How do I know if he needs stitches??!!”, in a panic.  I love that she lives so close because she offered to run to the house and tell me what to do.  Sure enough, she said we should take him to the Med Clinic for stitches.

You can see the pictures below, but it was the saddest most traumatic thing I have ever been through.  They had to strap him down and he screamed the entire time they were stitching him up.  Luckily as soon as it was over he stopped crying and went right back to eating his grapes.  All moms brag on their babies, but he really is a trooper.  Other than the initial fall and during the stitches he has never cried about it.  Amazingly he doesn’t even mess with the band-aid covering his stitches!!  We go back on Saturday to have the stitches removed and I am absolutely dreading that procedure.  They have to strap him down again 🙁

The other sad thing is that he is afraid of our bed.  In the morning I usually bring him in to wake up Randy.  He climbs on Randy and gives him a big hug and then lays there with him for a few minutes.  Ever since the fall he won’t go near the bed and really doesn’t want to be in our room.  Now, if I try to put him on the bed he just says, ‘no, no, no’.  I hope he will remember the fall, but find a way to wake Randy up in the mornings.  I love that part right before I leave for the day.

Julie

Porter Rose Stryk

Meghan and Wade Stryk have become great friends of ours after originally being introduced by Chris and Alison Berry. Since then we have been to their destination wedding in Cozumel (see Babymoon 2008) and stayed in contact as Julie and Meghan shared part of their pregnancy.

We are happy to announce Porter Rose Stryk!!

She comes in at 7lbs, 4 oz and 19 inches long. Mom and Dad were beaming when we went to visit them in the hospital and Porter looked great.

Congrats, Wade and Meghan!! We look forward to Porter and Alison getting to know each other.

-RB

Baldwin-Pike River Trip 2010

It is clear that our annual river trip to New Braunfels with the Pikes has become the “Reed and Kate” show. Nobody that has ever taken a weekend trip with a toddler will ever argue otherwise. Last year was the first year with kids, but we could still dictate where to put the child down and count on them staying put for the most part. This year was the first sign of things to come… mobile children with a mind of their own!

But I digress, as frustrating as parenting is sometime, the rewards are ten-fold. We absolutely loved watching the interaction of Reed with Kate, and vice-versa.

After eating at the Gristmill on Firday night, we hung out in the picnic/waiting area and let the kids climb on the benches and chase each other around. Kate is 5 months older than Reed and it is still very apparent in her motor skills and physical ability. Kate was up and down on the benches, while Reed would still be struggling to swing a leg up and shift his weight. The ride home was even more entertaining!!

We made one more side trip during the weekend to Landa Park. We rode the train and then had a picnic next to one of the playgrounds. The kids were in heaven. Reed had a great time climbing up and around firetruck play-set that had a double slide. The best part is that he could do the whole thing all by himself! At one point during our picnic lunch, ran over to go climb and go down down the slide one more time… then came back to sit down and eat his sandwich. 🙂

The rest of the weekend, we hung around the condo and the river. The water was WAY too cold for the kids, but we did splash around on the steps where they could easily sit and stick their feet in. One of the best features of this condo is the large grassy area between the river and the condo. It is literally a mini park with sidewalks, numerous picnic tables and a half-dozen BBQ grills. We played out there a lot and even chose to eat our chicken fajita meal down by the water.

It is worth noting that the weather was AWESOME. After the week of rain that San Antonio had the week before, we were concerned about needing some indoor activities as backup. A cool front blew in Saturday night and it made Sunday and Monday mornings so crisp and cool.

Next year’s trip will be even more interesting. Both Julie and Sarah are due in January, so bigger toddlers plus infants should make for a bonafide three-ring circus.

-RB

Belly Pic – 22 weeks

Ok, I give!! I’m NEVER comfortable with a picture of just me, but here you go.

Alison is 22 weeks along and starting to show everyone that she is here (and kicking me so I don’t forget!).  She is already MUCH more active than Reed was, so it will be interesting to see how her personality differs from his 🙂

-JB