Affectionate Boy

One of the best side affects from Reed starting day care 5 weeks ago is that now he spends 9 hours a day in a room with 11 other children. When he gets home all he wants is some love and attention from us!!! It has been so wonderful for him to come running to my arms and want hugs and kisses. Maybe I should have sent him to day care a long time ago…

14 weeks, maybe a boy?

Everyone is right when they say the second pregnancy flies by.  I cannot believe I am already 14 weeks pregnant.  I feel like we just found out the other day.  Reed definitely makes the time go by faster because I am always running after him.  I think that is also helping with the weight management

When I was pregnant with Reed I didn’t need maternity clothes until well into my second trimester.  This time my jeans got tight 2 weeks ago so I started wearing a belly band occasionally to work and with my jeans.

The other crazy thing is that I started feeling Little Spice move 2 weeks ago.  My mom told me I was wrong and that it couldn’t be baby.  But on Friday my OB disagreed and said that it probably is baby that I’m feeling.  I don’t feel it very often, but it sure is fun when I do!!

We get to find out if Little Spice is a boy or a girl at the end of August.  Unlike last time, I really would be thrilled with either.  I really wanted a boy last time and it was such a wonderful surprise when we found out Reed was a boy.  This time I would love to have a girl, but I would also LOVE for Reed to have a little brother so close in age.

-JB

already different, girl perhaps?

So far the biggest change from my first pregnancy to this one is my hunger level.  With Reed I didn’t eat much the first 4 or 5 months, and what I did eat was very healthy.  With Little Spice I feel like I’m hungry all the time.  Randy thinks it’s a girl because he says she is already pushing my buttons.  I hate to eat at night and usually eat dinner as soon as I get home from work.  Little Spice has been demanding that I eat something before bed or I wake up incredibly hungry.  This is why Randy thinks she’s a girl and already butting heads with her (somewhat) headstrong mother

Still no sickness, like with Reed, but I am definitely tired.  I don’t’ remember being this tired with Reed, but I tend to forget the bad things as time passes.  Maybe I was this tired, or maybe chasing after Reed all the time is compounding the exhaustion.  Either way, everything is good!

-JB

Water baby

Reed LLLLOOOOOVVVVES water. He loves splashing in it, he loves getting sprayed in the face with it, he loves being wet.

There is never a dull moment when Reed is around water. Bath time is always fun and a happy time. Whenever we are in the backyard we have to restrain him from getting in the dog water bowl (as we found out on Easter). Kiddie pools are always a hit. But the best one so far has to be during a recent rain storm.

It was early evening and I had just finished the rush to mow the grass before the clouds rolled in. We were inside and it had already started raining. Reed caught a glimpse of the older kids running around in the cul-de-sac through the window next to the door. He proceeded to open the door (he can do that now) and walk out to the covered entryway porch. We watched the whole thing play out… after all he was in a very good mood that night, and it is always fun to watch his mind work.

He stood on the front porch and yelled out the kids that were running up and down the street, playing in the pouring rain. Reed wanted to be out there SOO bad! Well, there wasn’t anything stopping him… he can negotiate the stairs himself, so I was there with him in case he needed me.

As he eased down the stairs, he stepped farther into the rain, and he started to get very excited about the constant drops on the back of his head and in his face when he looked up. He had a huge grin on his face by the time he reached the last step and stood up. He then wandered into the front yard and driveway and absolutely loved it.

It wasn’t a very intimidating rain storm, but strong enough to start making puddles in the street for the kids to pounce through. Reed wanted some of that too, so hear is where Dad stripped down to his shorts and went out to join him.

I got the wagon and carted him around the street and made sure to go fast enough to splash some puddles. I loved it and so did he.

I’m glad I followed his lead and remembered for a short moment what it was like to play in the rain and splash in the puddles.

RB

Spreading the news

This weekend we were in Houston to throw a baby shower for our friends Sam & Jessica.  On Sunday we decided to have all our friends over to the Pike’s house for some lunch and time for the kids to play.  We were staying with the Pikes’ (Sarah is the one that shares my due date) and since we are both 10 weeks we decided it would be fun to tell all of our friends together.  Reed and Kate put on their Big Brother and Big Sister t-shirts and we waited to see who would figure it out first.  No great surprise…the moment Christine walked in the door she noticed.  I couldn’t have asked for a better way to spread the news!  Thanks for such a fun weekend!!

-JB

Father's Day 2010

My second Father’s Day was not one I would care to remember. I came down with a stomach virus at about 5am and spent the next 6 hours making trips to the bathroom for more than one reason… I was down for the count.

Needless to say, I missed out on the Father’s Day plans that we had to spend at my parent’s house with Mama B and Papa Roy as well. Instead, Julie took Reed to her parents to spend it with her dad, as well as allow me to get more rest with a quiet house.

I am blessed to have had such a great First Father’s Day, because this one was not one I care to remember.

RB

Sonograms

Quick little update.  Just had another OB appt and she did yet another sonogram.  I am feeling SO lucky to have this wonderful doctor.  With Reed I only had 3 sonograms total.  I’m still in first trimester and have already had 3.  I already feel closer to Little Spice than I ever did when Reed was still an ‘inside baby’.

-JB

Month 15

This was a big month of changes for Reed. On the development side, he has pushed out around 6 teeth in the span of only 3 weeks! He’s been a constant drooler, as seen by the constant ring around his neckline of any shirt he wears. He is also pushing his limits on stairs by taking little steps up without the aide of a handhold or even bending over to step up. He is doing the same thing going down little steps, but that is a little uneasy for us to watch since it is inevitable he will bite it one time… but he IS pretty resilient.

The biggest change for Reed this month was his move from the nanny to full-time daycare. We had already discussed the change for the fall, but the nanny’s own situation had changed where she would need to leave by 4:45pm everyday. That just wasn’t going to work for either of us working parents, so we had to jump on the situation and find what was available. Luv ‘N Care is literally right across the street from our neighborhood. It was our first choice of 3 options, and they had an immediate opening for his age range. We made the move and gave the notice to the nanny that we would be leaving after one more week. The nanny was very sad to see Reed go, but we took pictures of her and the boys, and framed them for a “thank you” gift to her.

We also had to inform Granny B about the change… you see she has grown quite accustomed to watching her first grandchild about once a week, so we knew this was going to be the hardest bombshell to drop. Her response: “Well, you are not paying me, so couldn’t you just keep bringing him here one day a week?” Not so fast, Mom…. I mean Grandma…. sorry. She did understand and knew it wouldn’t last forever…. but then she can always just wait for the next one to come around.

RB

Two babies, but not twins

Now that you all know about Little Spice, there is even more exciting news…my good friend Sarah is having her second baby too…and we have the same due date!  How fun is that?

I had my second visit with Dr. Vanover on Wednesday.  We did another sonogram and this time we could definitely see Little Spice.  For some reason I had this thought that I was having twins.  After today I know FOR SURE that we aren’t having twins.  I would have loved twins (truly), but I don’t think I could afford the day care costs!

-JB

Month 14

I feel like a broken record because I am always telling people that everyday Reed does new things.  But it’s true.  All of you mommies know it too.

Reed is a great eater, but he is less reluctant to eat new foods if he watches someone else eat it first.  The latest example of this is watermelon.  I have been trying to feed him watermelon for a week or so.  The first time he watched someone else eat it he was all over it.  The next night he wouldn’t touch it.  I asked Randy to take a bite so Reed would eat.  Sure enough, as soon as someone else was enjoying the deliciousness Reed was all over it.  Weird little copycat.

He still doesn’t speak english very often, but he definitely talks all the time.  So far he says mama, dada, and what’s that.  He is starting to try to mimic me when I speak to him, but he is definitely behind on the verbal progress.  I am hoping that when we move him to day care in the fall the structure and curriculum will help him become more verbal.  (I also better watch what I wish for!)

Reed has become my little climber.  We bought him a small table and chairs from IKEA several months ago and the first thing he did was climb into the chair and try to climb on the table.  He also has decided that he likes to get into the bathtub by himself (when there is no water) to play with his toys.  He doesn’t even mind that in order to get in the tub he has to bump his head.  Hilarious.

Reed loves books.  Most of the time we put him to bed with a few books.  If he isn’t angry about going to sleep he will turn the pages for a little while and then put himself to sleep.  In the morning he will wake up and start babbling.  30 minutes later I will walk in his room and he is reading his books to himself.  I absolutely love that time of the morning.  It might be my favorite time of the day.

This kid is also obsessed with water.  As you can see from the previous post he loves the slip n slide.  He also loves to play in any puddle or container of water he can find.  Unfortunately this often includes him playing with the water cooler and Logan’s water dish.  Call me a bad mom, but I let him play.  I don’t care if he is in the backyard and splashing to hs heart’s content in the water trough or spilling water all over the bathroom floor.  I just love to see how happy playing in water makes him. 

One last thing…he is finally good at drinking out of a straw.  He likes to take a big drink of my water right after I get it from the water cooler.  Of course the water is very cold so he makes the funniest face.  (As soon as we get home tonight I will have Randy post a picture of his face after he gets his little brain freeze.  It’s hilarious)

There are so many fun little stories I could tell about sweet Reed.  It makes me realize that I need to update the blog more often because I hate writing long posts like this and no one wants to read a 2 page blog post!  I will try to work on that 🙂

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