Third Annual Aggie Baseball Weekend

IMG_8112.JPGMy family loves to tailgate.  Any excuse is really a good one.  Seriously, have you met my dad?  Since football season only happens for a short time we had to come up with more reasons (excuses) to spend time in Aggieland.  Baseball weekends are the perfect solution.  The weather is fantastic, and more importantly it is a much more relaxing and enjoyable experience than football weekends. 

IMG_8140.JPGThis year Randy towed my parents’ extra RV (that usually lives up at the lake) behind his truck.  Now we had 2 bathrooms, 2 refrigerators and 2 places for babies and people to sleep.  Randy, I know it was a lot of work but you did a great job!!!  

We were able to convince more of my college friends to join us, and it turned into a wonderful weekend.  Not only did we get the best weather so far this year, but it was the first weekend of Spring Break.  This equals no one in College Station!!  We parked the bus and the trailer at Olsen Field and had as much space for the kids to run around as they wanted.  The bubbles, tunnel, little people and car were plenty of toys for these little ones.  I think my favorite part was the bubbles.  They were so sweet trying to catch them.  I’m pretty sure all the kids slept well after all the playing and running around!! 

Thanks so much to everyone who came and for all the food contributions.  I can’t wait for next year’s baseball weekend!!!
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Mr. Balloons

Reed is obsessed with balloons.  As I mentioned previously, we knew he loved balloons, so we had tons of them at his birthday party last weekend.  This also means we have about 15 balloons in his playroom. 

Every night this week when we get home and put him down, the very first thing he does is walk into his playroom and grab two balloons.  Then he proceeds to walk around all night holding both balloons.  He rolls around on them, tries to bite them, shows them to Logan, etc.  He is so attached to these balloons that when we take our nightly walk he takes a balloon with him (I only let him have one) in the stroller and holds it the entire walk.  We really need to take a picture of how he holds it in the stroller.  It’s like the balloon is his best friend ever.  Funny boy.

Toddling

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Reed has successfully changed from a baby to a toddler, almost over night.  He is starting to have opinions and shows us when he is unhappy about something.

Sunday night we were leaving my parents house and when I was putting him in his car seat he looked at me and gave me a pouty face.  Then when I tried to hand him his lion (that he loves) he took his hand and swiped it out of my hand onto the driveway.  The entire drive home he kept the pouty face on.

He did this again when I picked him up from the nanny on Tuesday.  He was playing with Connor and Brody and when it was time to leave he kept walking away from me.  Once again when I put him in his car seat he started to pout and wouldn’t take his car toy.  During the drive home he would scream in short 2 second bursts.  Nothing was wrong, he was just pouting.

This is annoying, but also hilarious.  I’m so excited to see his little personality coming through (even if its bratty at times)

Happy FIRST Birthday

IMG_7766.JPGMonth 12 has been quite an exciting one with Reed. Walking, curiosity and a short attention span add-up to non-stop entertainment around the house. We swear that he is walking for the sake of walking as he meanders through the house and changes direction sometimes in mid-stride. Those that have dangled cowbells on their toddlers to always know where they are… I can see the logic now… if he is not babbling as he wanders, it’s always a guess if he is standing right behind you.

As for recent changes, we have stopped giving him a pacifier, except when we put him down to bed. We had to team up with the other family that he shares a nanny with so that he wouldn’t have that influence from the other boy either. It turns out it has been quite a success for both boys and we are glad he is not dependent on it.

We have also cut WAY back on bottles. We have not given him a bottle in the morning in several months, but recently stopped relying on them at night to put him down. Instead, a sippy-cup of whole milk and a pacifier, and he is content. He will usually babble for a while in his crib after we have put him down, but give him about 10 minutes and he is out. We’ll go back in to cover him up in whatever funny position he ended up in (usually knees tucked under in the corner, but lately has been using something as a pillow).

He is showing his (mother’s) personality at the dinner table now (hehe). When he does not want something he will scrunch his face and push it away. The same goes for when he is tired of eating a particular food and is ready for something else. Nothing pissed Julie off more than when he  started spitting something out intentionally. He prefers to feed himself (of course), and also knows that Logan will scoop up anything he throws down.

Now for the birthday party…

IMG_7820.JPGMost that know Julie, know that she loves hostessing. How much more special of an occasion can you get than your firstborn’s first birthday party?! It’s a right of passage that every new mother gets to plan it, and planning means thinking of the theme MONTHS in advance… or is that just Julie? I’m not sure… Whatever the case, it was very important to her to and she took it on: the cake, the cupcakes, the decor, the goodies, the invitations… all handmade.

IMG_7850.JPGThe theme: Bath Time (Reed’s favorite part of the day). Rubber duckies everywhere! We had balloons for decor since Reed carries them around whenever possible. We used bubbles as accents, including bubble wrap as place-mats!

IMG_7919.JPGWe invited all the boys that were born on either side of Reed. Three of the four boys were born within 2 weeks of each other in Dec 2008. It was amazing to see their differences in development, as well as see them all thrown into our playroom to duke it out (for our entertainment of course). I truly hope that these boys stay friends through the years… how cool would it be to see them grow up together!

IMG_7994.JPGThe party was a success and we have made a full recovery. Julie did a great job and the cake tasted perfect! We are equally excited that it is over now, but it’s bittersweet since it is likely the last party we will throw in this house.

-RB & J

Month 11

IMG_7506.JPGReed has been taking steps since early January, but as of Feb. 13 he is a walker.  He is of course getting better and better everyday and his balance is improving all the time.  It is so fun to watch how proud he is of himself when he walks from one end of the room to the other.  He (as usual) loves for us to watch him and gets so revved up that sometimes he knocks himself down because of his excitement.

He is babbling even more this month but no discernible words yet.  If he is anything like me it’s probably best if he waits a little longer before he talks.  Between the two of us I think we will drive Randy crazy!!

Reed's first love lives in Houston

IMG_7364.JPGWe finally made a trip to Houston to see a few people that we’ve needed to come see for some time now. The bumper crop of babies from only a year ago are all growing up to be such fun and entertaining toddlers. Reed has lots of friends is age in many cities, so we just have to set aside time with no other agenda to come and visit.Jim and Sarah Pike put us up for the first night and had Wade and Chelsea Egmon come over with their new boy, Caleb. Jim and Julie’s friend, James came over also with his girlfriend, Ryann. James is visiting from overseas and it is a rare occasion that he is here, so the timing worked out great.

The entertainment for the first part of the night and the morning was Reed’s infatuation with Kate! We have never seen Reed take such an interest in another child, to the point that he follows them around and aggressively grasps onto them every chance he gets. It was hilarious to see Kate react with confusion at first and then utter frustration when she couldn’t get away from Reed. At one point, Reed has her pinned in the corner, next to the window where they were both starring out.

Kate eventually warmed up to Reed, as you can see in the video below. They played well together and we look forward to the next time we can visit the Pikes.

The next stop was the Braniffs. Heather and Julie have been friends since high school and Heather has boy named Riley that is only 2 weeks older than Reed. We wanted them to meet and Julie also wanted to come visit Heather and her family.


The other reason for me to come to Houston was to see my cousin, Clint. Clint has been incarcerated for the last 11 1/2 years and after living in a halfway house for some time after his release, he is now living back with his Mom and Dad. It is wonderful for our entire family to have him finally out of confinement. I was pretty excited to see him again, but I was even more excited to introduce him to meet Julie and Reed.

Month 10

IMG_7343.JPGReed’s 10th month of life was a big one for all of us.  On January 7th he took his first step.  Yes it was during the national championship, and yes he was stepping AWAY from the tv.  Guess he’s a good Ag after all 🙂

During January is also when he started really babbling up a storm.  Some mornings I wake up to the sound of him talking to himself in his crib.  It is such a wonderful, unobtrusive way to wake up.  I only wish every single morning was like that.

He continues to be an incredibly happy child.  He loves to do anything to make us smile at him, which is pretty much anything he does.  One of his favorite tricks is to squint his eyes and smile.  We always pay off with a laugh so he does it all the time.

He has started to be a more picky eater and sometimes just won’t eat his vegetables.  His favorite foods are yogurt (I literally can’t get the spoon in his mouth fast enough when he’s eating yogurt) , fruit and jumbo rice crispies.  If I let him he would live on those few things and nothing else.  On second thought, add black beans to that list.  I have resorted to hiding vegetables in his yogurt.  He will eat the heck out of his peas and carrots if they are mixed in with his yogurt.  Sneaky mommy…

He still loves bath time more than anyone I’ve ever known.  I love it when we start the tub water because no matter where he is he hears it and crawls as fast as possible to the tub.  Then he stands at the tub and lifts his leg to try and get in the water all by himself.  Cracks me up every time.  He also LOVES rubber duckies.  He has a lion duck whose head he shoves in his mouth every chance he gets.

He still goes to the Davis’ house either 3 or 4 days a week to share the nanny with his best friend Brody.  He loves it there so much that some days I wonder if he would rather stay there with Brody than come home.  I tell you, for a working mom there is nothing more wonderful than knowing your child is well taken care of, and totally happy while you are at work everyday.

As for me I was finally able to lose the last of the baby weight.  I still have more weight to lose because I wasn’t in great shape when I got pregnant…but at least its a start!!

Month 10 was a great one.  I just can’t believe he’s almost 1 already.  It truly has been an awesome year.

Amanda’s Wedding!!

img_7063We spent last weekend in Dallas with my second family and all of my friends from A&M.  Amanda got married and was truly the most beautiful bride I have ever seen.  I’m not exaggerating here.  Amanda is photogenic and has a wonderful smile, but she is like me and doesn’t dress up very often.  I was TOTALLY blown away!

It was a family affair for all of us as my parents and Diana came too.  We shared a room with the Pikes (I always seem to share a room with you guys!!) and mom and dad kept Reed.  We all had a great time at the reception and sweet Reed was a trooper.  I didn’t realize how late it had gotten until he started to nod off on my shoulder.  I looked and it was 11pm!!!  No wonder the poor baby was tired.  He fell asleep on the floor in a pile of our coats…please don’t call CPS, I promise he was safe and perfectly happy!

Congratulations John & Amanda!!!

Resolutions

We had an uneventful New Years.  We invited a few families and my parents over to the house for a laid back evening.  That’s not quite what happened.  Our house is flat out too small to host any more gatherings if we can’t be outside.  We were bursting at the seams with only a few people!!!

Now to the point of my post…Resolutions.  I go back and forth on whether or not I agree with or believe in resolutions.  I believe in goals, I believe in constantly bettering yourself (drives Randy crazy), but I don’t believe in only doing it once a year and making the resolution for an entire year.  Small goals are much more achievable.  All that being said, I think I have a good one this year.  My resolution is to stop taking myself so seriously.  The girls in my accountability group know all about my shortcomings and my self induced drama, but the rest of you might not.

I am so hard on myself at all times.  It starts with my weight, and continues to my house not being perfect, and not being the smartest person at my job, and not dressing well enough, and I don’t spend enough time in devotion with God and I’m not a wonderful girlfriend, and I don’t write thank you notes…the list literally goes on.  I never give myself a break.  To illustrate how bad I can be, when I was a kid in school my parents never once punished me for a bad grade.  My mom’s logic was that I was already punishing myself enough so she didn’t need to.  And she was right!

All of this nonsense is taxing as you can imagine.  So my resolution is to give it a rest already.  I will lose this weight slowly, we will buy a new house one day that has the space I want, I’ve only been in my job for 3 months obviously I won’t be the best, etc.  This year more than ever I truly pray that I can keep my resolution forever!

J

Reed’s First Christmas

img_6911I love Christmas.  But Christmas is not Christmas without children.  I have felt that for many years and especially since Randy and I have been married.  This year Christmas was Christmas again!!

Christmas Eve we went to Victoria to be with the Pribyl family (Randy’s mom’s family).  They are huge family and I have such a wonderful time with them.  It only stinks that we only see them once a year.  I wish we could find another time to get together.  I love that celebration, but it is a very tough day.  We left the house around 8 and didn’t get home until 8.  Lots of driving, but lots of love and fun.  After we got home we had to wrap all of our presents (one of the things I had planned to do but then got sick) and ‘disassemble’ the toys we bought for Reed.  Why do they make those toys SO hard to get out!!??

Christmas morning Randy and I woke up early like a couple of children.  We opened our presents to each other (not much after the TV) and then woke Reed up.  He opened played with his new toys (a set of whiffle balls that cost about $5 were his favorite) and then I started the coffee and put breakfast in the oven.

My family came over and spent the morning with us.  It was a wonderful morning.  We relaxed and enjoyed each other’s company.

Randy, Reed and I spent the afternoon relaxing and napping and then Randy’s family came over.  More present opening and family time.  All in all it was a fantastic Christmas and I am excited for next year 🙂

J